your way is one way
his way is a second way
there are many third ways
there is but one fourth way


understanding    is 'seeing' what is
             under    the surface
                          and what it
            stands    on - - as far
                          back as you can
                          go - - (i.e. the
                          assumption behind the
                          assumption)


on the ephemeral level there is
no possible understanding of why
or even what a person is doing
it is the sum total of desires
inclinations and extraneous forces
acting at a point in time and space